Detailed Summary for [Don't Marry when there's No Attraction]

Summary
Pastor Kenneth Afari emphasizes the importance of attraction and desire as foundational elements in marriage, arguing that without these, marriages may become unstable and unhappy over time. highlights that attraction is a divine concept introduced by God in the union of Adam and Eve and should be present in every marriage to endure challenges.
He then advises against marrying out of sympathy or pressure, as true happiness in marriage stems from genuine love and attraction.

Highlights
Marriage is a concept created by God and should be guided by His rules, emphasizing the importance of the spiritual force infused by God into couples.
The speaker highlights that marriage is a concept of God, and only His rules can make it last.
The importance of the spiritual force infused by God into Eve and Adam to bond them as husband and wife is emphasized.
Reference is made to Genesis chapter 2 verses 23 and 24, where the foundation of marriage between Adam and Eve is laid out.
         
Attraction and desire are the foundation of marriage, leading to a powerful intimacy before becoming husband and wife.
Marriage between Adam and Eve was based on attraction and desire from the Garden of Eden.
True love and attraction allow couples to overcome challenges together.
Lack of attraction and desire can lead to the breakdown of a marriage.
         
Attraction is the basis of successful marriages, not sympathy or convenience.
Marriages without attraction are likely to fail.
Intrinsic attraction is powerful and essential for a strong marriage.
Biblical examples like Adam and Eve, Rebecca and Isaac, and Jacob and Rachel highlight the importance of attraction in marriage.
         
The importance of attraction in marriage and how it should be the foundation.
Jacob's attraction to Rachel was the basis of their marriage.
Intrinsic love and attractiveness are highlighted as essential ingredients for a successful marriage.
The story of Jacob serving additional years to marry Rachel emphasizes the power of true attraction in marriage.
         
Attraction is key in the selection of a partner by God, emphasizing its importance in marriage.
God selects his people based on attraction and attractiveness placed in their hearts.
A Christian marriage is said to be strong even without material possessions if there is love.
The importance of attraction in marriage is emphasized as a supernatural touch given by God.
         
Attraction is crucial in marriage as it is a spiritual selection process initiated by God; marrying without genuine attraction leads to unhappiness.
God's selection in marriage is based on attraction and desire, emulating His spiritual practices.
Marrying out of pressure or pity without genuine attraction leads to marital unhappiness in the long run.
Lack of attraction causes couples to grow apart over time, despite having children together.
Sincere prayer and honesty are recommended when lacking attraction towards a potential spouse to avoid future marital issues.
         
Emphasizing the importance of genuine attraction and using God's law in marriage.

Encourages relying on God to perfect relationships instead of pretending.
Shares a personal experience witnessing a couple's fake facade despite underlying conflicts.
stresses the significance of using God's law and attraction in marriage for genuine happiness.
Offers a prayer for married individuals, especially those feeling pressured by age.

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